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January 2012

Do Women Want Casual Sex As Much As Men?

When it comes to casual sex, are men and women really that different?
For starters, most people would argue that men and women are different when it comes to sex. But here is the inescapable conclusion I have come to over the years: women want sex as much as men do – however, they require different conditions for casual sex to be appealing.
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The Top Ten Flaws Of The Human Brain

The human brain is responsible for the greatest and the worst of humanity. Here is my list of the top 10 reasons why we are in a bunch of hot water as a human race.

1. The brain lacks the ability to naturally think critically.

As it turns out, our brains do not naturally know how to evaluate life critically. To the brain, no matter how outrageous the thought or belief, it’s all true – or at least possible. This is a big problem. From the brain’s perspective, the second coming of Jesus is evaluated exactly the same way as the bill that’s due at the end of the month; to the brain it’s all the same. read more

What I Wish I Learned in Sex Ed

As the New Year approaches, I find myself feeling reflective. I thought I would share a list of a few things that I wish I learned – as a teenager – in sex-ed. Feel free to share and add on to the list.

Firstly, women and men are very much alike – and divisions of sexes are more mythological read more

The Beauty of Adulthood is That Our Beliefs Can Change to Adapt to Reality

Friday night I was eating at my favorite late night Hollywood Thai dive. Next to me was a table of Thai boys. Very gay Thai boys meeting up after the clubs closed. And I thought to myself, “how beautiful it is that gayness expresses itself across global cultures.”

I felt warm inside that Thai gay boys had found ways to connect in Los Angeles – thousands of miles away from home – and light years away read more