November 7, 2012

I’m just home from the Yoga, Sex, Feminism conference in Dallas. It was incredible - beyond my expectations-and my body is abuzz with energy. I love being around people who get that pleasure, bliss, joy, happiness are empowered qualities to aspire to and live life from...

October 10, 2012

Ahh, the power of difficult discussions. I’ve been thinking about something sitting like a splinter in my consciousness. It’s about ownership.

Ownership of the vagina and the womb. What I am noticing is that there is this new framework of relationships that is all about...

July 27, 2012

People say the world is all about love, the universe is made of love, love is the answer to all things, and all you need is love.

I think that’s a lot of bullshit myself. Love is a very confusing metaphor that awkwardly hides people’s true motivations.

You see, the world...

April 4, 2012

With tears tumbling, we comforted our kitty gently, thanking her for the love she brought us as life slipped away from her frail, tired body. My girlfriend and I have been dealing with the loss of Sydney for a week now.

Trauma has the potential to destroy intimate conne...

February 26, 2011

I was on a radio show this week with my business partner Jaiya - covering the subject of freeing yourself from sexual shame. In preparing for the show Jaiya asked me to consider the origins of sexual shame. I wanted to share some of those thoughts.

It seems to me that s...

September 29, 2010


I would think that the Clinton Global Initiative who's mission is to focus people, NGO's, and governments on confronting the world's most pressing problems, would at least be open to global discussions about sex. Unfortunately, we're not there yet.

That being said, las...

July 15, 2010

For those of us interested in geeky energtic, tantric, deep brain sex, I want to share a secret pleasure technique, viewed through the lens of brain science.

Let's begin with a basic brain cell primer. The off-the-rack brain cell is called the neuron. Axons are very lon...

March 19, 2010

You and I did not come from monogamous ancestry. We came from folks who enjoyed fucking - a lot. Otherwise, we wouldn't be here.

It's really simple to understand. The monogamous couple, who slept only with one another, who only had children with one another - and lived...

March 10, 2010


This month, The Scientist did a scientific examination of porn, asking the question, is porn good for us? It's an interesting question because, in a democratic society, I believe unquestionably that the answer is YES.

The Scientist article points out that our social my...

January 27, 2010

I'm going to get you up to speed about the pussy. No, this isn't some instructional blog about how to fuck a pussy, or love a clit. Today's blog comes directly from my 6 day tantric pleasure workshop in Sedona, Arizona, and is based on the realization that controlling...

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