June 9, 2014

Lawrence illustrates the power of dropping your beliefs...

June 5, 2014

Who Am I is a question that can be used to lead you to mythological liberation - or into pain, suffering and self abuse. It's up to you. This is a new take on an old question!

June 5, 2014

A friend of mine is feeling guilty about becoming a "sexual adult" woman. This is my response to her.




December 24, 2013

I’m currently sitting at a restaurant near The Pentagon writing this blog. I just had the most amazing discussion with an ultra conservative, right wing, Born Again Christian, fundamentalist Special Ops, military guy (that’s how he described himself). He sat at the tab...

December 23, 2013

This blog is a further exploration of my last post about female sex drive.

My friend Reid reidaboutsex.com and I were talking about sexual relationships, and he had a brilliant realization that he shared with me. He calls it ‘dating within your species’.

In intimate rela...

December 23, 2013

We can be our own worst critics. Not only is it true, but recent studies also show that being hyper-critical of ourselves is also detrimental to our health.

So now I’m going to let you in on a secret. My biggest spiritual insight over the last decade was realizing the v...

May 1, 2013

Many people, including the Catholic Church, believe that the highest form of human evolution is the transcendence of sex in the form of celibacy. But as Church sex scandals abound, the question we really need to ask is: is celibacy possible?

I’ll get back to this questi...

December 23, 2012

It’s been a while since I’ve blogged. I’m balls deep in the cave writing my latest book. But I had to come out of the cave to make the most public statement I can make here on lawrencelanoff.com

Are you ready?  The world will still be here on the 22nd of December 2012....

June 30, 2012

This week, I have been in The South with my girlfriend, visiting her family. Both of us have discussed the copious amounts of judgmentalness and sexual repression that is so self-evident here.

Not from family and friends, but from strangers, people we don’t know and nev...

May 23, 2012

When we roll off the main road, it’s like entering a desert wonderland. Within an hour we are in another world. One inhabited by joshua trees, African mules and tiny desert creatures. Skies of blue and wisps of white dance overhead. We’ve been coming to this quiet para...

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