Break Free From The Boxes You're Feeling Stuck In.
June 9, 2014
December 24, 2013
Recently, researchers at the UCLA evaluated brain activity in 15 devout Christians and 15 nonbelievers as they assessed the truth or falsity of religious and non religious statements.
To someone like me, a de-mythologist, the results are horrifying, explaining why it is...
If you've been following my essays, you know that I was 11 years old when I received my first lesson from a tantric master.
Since that time I've been fascinated by the subject of sex, and what goes on in the brain that allows us to connect so deeply.
A long time ago, in...
I have an idea. And I’m going to share it with you in a moment. But first, I want to talk about a change that I see happening in the myth of the female psyche.
The current myth is that open female sexuality is slutish. Most sex is evil. That menstrual blood is dirty. Th...
December 22, 2013
It’s Christmas time. You know what that means? It means it’s time for the de-bunker to call-out Santa. Hey, at least I’m an equal opportunity myth de-bunker.
So, here’s the problem with all myths – they pose as cute little, seemingly innocuous stories. However, they are...
October 10, 2012
Ahh, the power of difficult discussions. I’ve been thinking about something sitting like a splinter in my consciousness. It’s about ownership.
Ownership of the vagina and the womb. What I am noticing is that there is this new framework of relationships that is all about...
May 4, 2012
This week, I sat down with award winning porn editor Rhonda Ovalman. She's 24 years old and openly loves the industry. Rhonda is part of a generation that has grown up with porn.
Here's the cool part: When Rhonda thinks about porn, she thinks about making the world a be...
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