June 9, 2014

Lawrence illustrates the power of dropping your beliefs...

June 5, 2014

Part 2 - On The power of beliefs...

June 5, 2014

A woman can have sex with whomever she wants? Yes?

June 5, 2014

A friend of mine is feeling guilty about becoming a "sexual adult" woman. This is my response to her.

 

 

 

December 24, 2013

Recently, researchers at the UCLA evaluated brain activity in 15 devout Christians and 15 nonbelievers as they assessed the truth or falsity of religious and non religious statements.

To someone like me, a de-mythologist, the results are horrifying, explaining why it is...

December 24, 2013

Historically, humans have always been "unfaithful." However, the idea of unfaithful vs faithful is a religious myth, designed to help ensure paternity. The myth of the unfaithful pressures the emotional centers of the brain, and makes us feel ashamed, guilty, afraid of...

December 24, 2013

 

A friend of mine once said that the only way to get massive amounts of sexual access to women, with limited strings attached, is to start a cult.

I had to laugh, because in my experience, that's exactly right.

I've known, worked with, and been friends with quite a few c...

December 24, 2013

I’m currently sitting at a restaurant near The Pentagon writing this blog. I just had the most amazing discussion with an ultra conservative, right wing, Born Again Christian, fundamentalist Special Ops, military guy (that’s how he described himself). He sat at the tab...

December 23, 2013

This blog is a further exploration of my last post about female sex drive.

My friend Reid reidaboutsex.com and I were talking about sexual relationships, and he had a brilliant realization that he shared with me. He calls it ‘dating within your species’.

In intimate rela...

April 26, 2013

I’m writing this post to two friends who are at life crossroads. My first friend is a 69 year old man who recently met a woman whom he deeply loves. The problem he has is that he feels very “naturally” polyamorous. He wants occasional sex with other people. She, on the...

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