December 24, 2013


If you've been following my essays, you know that I was 11 years old when I received my first lesson from a tantric master.

Since that time I've been fascinated by the subject of sex, and what goes on in the brain that allows us to connect so deeply.

A long time ago, in...

December 24, 2013

I’m leading a “Perfect Touch Mindset” seminar next weekend for men. The workshop is about helping men with the mindset necessary for improving their touch skills. When we can learn to touch another human being from our authenticity - in touch with our own true desires...

May 25, 2013

I’m just back from teaching in Toronto where my friends and sex educators Reid Mihalko, Monique Darling and me taught a weekend training on Energy Sex. The weekend was incredible, but I personally had a breakthrough that I want to share about the power of sexual commun...

March 6, 2013

Here’s what I see. Strong, powerful, amazing women, trying to find their way through the quagmire of female sexuality in America. It’s confusing. I get it. Women are trying to figure out how to thrive in a world filled with conflicting signals about how female sexualit...

October 4, 2012

Have you ever been around somebody who is criticizing you a lot? especially in a relationship? If you are like most people, this is very disturbing to your sense of well being. Why? Because when somebody points out something that we did wrong, they are generally pointi...

July 27, 2012

People say the world is all about love, the universe is made of love, love is the answer to all things, and all you need is love.

I think that’s a lot of bullshit myself. Love is a very confusing metaphor that awkwardly hides people’s true motivations.

You see, the world...

June 30, 2012

This week, I have been in The South with my girlfriend, visiting her family. Both of us have discussed the copious amounts of judgmentalness and sexual repression that is so self-evident here.

Not from family and friends, but from strangers, people we don’t know and nev...

May 4, 2012

This week, I sat down with award winning porn editor Rhonda Ovalman. She's 24 years old and openly loves the industry. Rhonda is part of a generation that has grown up with porn.

Here's the cool part: When Rhonda thinks about porn, she thinks about making the world a be...

April 4, 2012

With tears tumbling, we comforted our kitty gently, thanking her for the love she brought us as life slipped away from her frail, tired body. My girlfriend and I have been dealing with the loss of Sydney for a week now.

Trauma has the potential to destroy intimate conne...

January 1, 2012

As the New Year approaches, I find myself feeling reflective. I thought I would share a list of a few things that I wish I learned - as a teenager - in sex-ed. Feel free to share and add on to the list.

Firstly, women and men are very much alike - and divisions of sexes...

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