December 22, 2013

It’s Christmas time. You know what that means? It means it’s time for the de-bunker to call-out Santa. Hey, at least I’m an equal opportunity myth de-bunker.

So, here’s the problem with all myths – they pose as cute little, seemingly innocuous stories. However, they are...

May 31, 2013

Why are female bodies so threatening to religious people? I often wonder what the vicious hatred of female nudity is about. Part of my intention today is to look at a possible cause for the religious vitriol in the wake of the FEMEN protests and the trial of Amina.


May 25, 2013

I’m just back from teaching in Toronto where my friends and sex educators Reid Mihalko, Monique Darling and me taught a weekend training on Energy Sex. The weekend was incredible, but I personally had a breakthrough that I want to share about the power of sexual commun...

March 6, 2013

Here’s what I see. Strong, powerful, amazing women, trying to find their way through the quagmire of female sexuality in America. It’s confusing. I get it. Women are trying to figure out how to thrive in a world filled with conflicting signals about how female sexualit...

January 15, 2013

We can always be our own worst critics. However, recent studies show that being hyper-critical of ourselves can be detrimental to our health.

So now I’m going to let you in on a secret. My biggest spiritual insight over the last decade was in realizing the value and imp...

October 4, 2012

Have you ever been around somebody who is criticizing you a lot? especially in a relationship? If you are like most people, this is very disturbing to your sense of well being. Why? Because when somebody points out something that we did wrong, they are generally pointi...

July 27, 2012

People say the world is all about love, the universe is made of love, love is the answer to all things, and all you need is love.

I think that’s a lot of bullshit myself. Love is a very confusing metaphor that awkwardly hides people’s true motivations.

You see, the world...

June 30, 2012

This week, I have been in The South with my girlfriend, visiting her family. Both of us have discussed the copious amounts of judgmentalness and sexual repression that is so self-evident here.

Not from family and friends, but from strangers, people we don’t know and nev...

May 23, 2012

When we roll off the main road, it’s like entering a desert wonderland. Within an hour we are in another world. One inhabited by joshua trees, African mules and tiny desert creatures. Skies of blue and wisps of white dance overhead. We’ve been coming to this quiet para...

January 7, 2012

When it comes to casual sex, are men and women really that different?

For starters, most people would argue that men and women are different when it comes to sex. But here is the inescapable conclusion I have come to over the years: women want sex as much as men do – ho...

Please reload

Featured Posts

Sex is Our Humanity

December 24, 2013

Please reload

Recent Posts

December 24, 2013

Please reload

Search By Tags