August 1, 2014

Some things just outrage me. Yesterday, on NPR, I heard a 12 year old talk about why she thought “illegals” should be turned away from the US borders. She spoke about how these bad people were bringing drugs and disease into our country.

What blew my mind is that she sa...

June 5, 2014

A woman can have sex with whomever she wants? Yes?

December 23, 2013

We can be our own worst critics. Not only is it true, but recent studies also show that being hyper-critical of ourselves is also detrimental to our health.

So now I’m going to let you in on a secret. My biggest spiritual insight over the last decade was realizing the v...

May 28, 2013

At the core of our sexual being lies sexual shame instilled through an elaborate structure of cultural mores and religious values. Over millennia, shame has become our default setting. And though I see things changing in the younger generations, the reality is that sha...

October 4, 2012

Have you ever been around somebody who is criticizing you a lot? especially in a relationship? If you are like most people, this is very disturbing to your sense of well being. Why? Because when somebody points out something that we did wrong, they are generally pointi...

January 7, 2012

When it comes to casual sex, are men and women really that different?

For starters, most people would argue that men and women are different when it comes to sex. But here is the inescapable conclusion I have come to over the years: women want sex as much as men do – ho...

January 1, 2012

As the New Year approaches, I find myself feeling reflective. I thought I would share a list of a few things that I wish I learned - as a teenager - in sex-ed. Feel free to share and add on to the list.

Firstly, women and men are very much alike - and divisions of sexes...

October 22, 2011


“Why did you break up with her?” I asked my friend over a beer. “I found out she was cheating on me,” he said in total disgust.

It’s a common story. Ashton’s affair and subsequent divorce has been all over the tabloids lately. But what is cheating anyway? And why do we...

February 26, 2011

I was on a radio show this week with my business partner Jaiya - covering the subject of freeing yourself from sexual shame. In preparing for the show Jaiya asked me to consider the origins of sexual shame. I wanted to share some of those thoughts.

It seems to me that s...

September 29, 2010


I would think that the Clinton Global Initiative who's mission is to focus people, NGO's, and governments on confronting the world's most pressing problems, would at least be open to global discussions about sex. Unfortunately, we're not there yet.

That being said, las...

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