December 24, 2013


If you've been following my essays, you know that I was 11 years old when I received my first lesson from a tantric master.

Since that time I've been fascinated by the subject of sex, and what goes on in the brain that allows us to connect so deeply.

A long time ago, in...

December 23, 2013

new study conducted on heterosexual females shows that watching explicit porn awakens a different part of the brain other than the visual processor.

This is unusual because, under normal circumstances, when watching a regular movie for example, regions of the brain as...

July 27, 2012

People say the world is all about love, the universe is made of love, love is the answer to all things, and all you need is love.

I think that’s a lot of bullshit myself. Love is a very confusing metaphor that awkwardly hides people’s true motivations.

You see, the world...

May 4, 2012

This week, I sat down with award winning porn editor Rhonda Ovalman. She's 24 years old and openly loves the industry. Rhonda is part of a generation that has grown up with porn.

Here's the cool part: When Rhonda thinks about porn, she thinks about making the world a be...

January 7, 2012

When it comes to casual sex, are men and women really that different?

For starters, most people would argue that men and women are different when it comes to sex. But here is the inescapable conclusion I have come to over the years: women want sex as much as men do – ho...

May 10, 2010

Last night, I soaked in the watsu pools, under the stars, as I moved in and out of a massive "play party", that undulated on for over three hours, inside the Sedona Temple.

When we are sex positive, and we get together with a group of our 100 closest sex-positive friend...

March 3, 2010

About seven years ago, I realized that I could attain sublime states of consciousness through consciously experiencing sex, pleasure, and vulnerability. What many people call awakened states of consciousness actually mirrors orgasmic bliss.

The exalted state of Buddhist...

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