I'm going to get you up to speed about the pussy. No, this isn't some instructional blog about how to fuck a pussy, or love a clit. Today's blog comes directly from my 6 day tantric pleasure workshop in Sedona, Arizona, and is based on the realization that controlling the pussy remains a global epidemic.
Here's what I mean. There's a direct relationship between the evolution of religion, religious thinking, even modern spirituality, and the need to control your pussy: where she is, what's she's doing, and who has access to her -- at all times.
Why is religion so obsessed with cunt control? With all the problems in the world, why does your pussy matter?
Before modern science and DNA testing, the fear of a punishing God was used to ensure paternity. The all knowing, all seeing, God of doom and gloom, made sure that a man's children were really his children- especially when the "owner" of the pussy was out fighting or hunting for food. Though it's true women are no longer considered physical property, psychologically their genitals and reproduction are still dominated by this wrathful male God.
It seems to me, the most effective way to control a woman's pussy is to control her sexual impulses and desires from the very beginning. An enslaved mind -- one that is afraid of the invisible man-god watching her every move -- is the perfect solution.
God as it turns out, is the ultimate creepy guy; he's watching every move you and your pussy make, or want to make - 24 hours a day. As my friend Marilyn said while reading this piece, "feeling that the creepy guy is watching keeps me from doing all the pleasurable things I really want to do. It sucks."
This sick mind control goes right down to the minutest expression of sexuality and pleasure. I was partying at a Las Vegas hot spot recently and was dumbfounded by women judging women. If a girl "show's too much" she's a slut or a whore. The contempt women have for their flesh bearing sisters is palpable. When I watch a group of girls partying, there is always somebody in charge of cock blocking and pussy control. It's crazy.
This obsession with cunt control even extends into our fantasies. I hear so many stories from women who feel they can't fantasize in their own heads without feeling ashamed or judged.
With the pussy being on lock down for thousands of years, it's not like the world is a better place. It's a mess. We still have all the problems associated with being alive - but we lack the freedom of pussy pleasure.
I think it's time to drop the whole invisible man story. I believe it's time to set our pussies free.
Today in Sedona, Arizona, we are spending the day consciously loving the cunt. Let's freely and openly discuss our fantasies, and change the programing of fear, self hatred, and judgement that we feel about our bodies, our impulses, and our pleasure.
It's time to take back the power of the pussy and make the world a better place. It's time to let your pleasure flow.
Your body is good. Pleasure is good. Fantasy is good. Your pussy is good!