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The Myth Of Monogamy

Recently, researchers at the UCLA evaluated brain activity in 15 devout Christians and 15 nonbelievers as they assessed the truth or falsity of religious and non religious statements.

To someone like me, a de-mythologist, the results are horrifying, explaining why it is so difficult for us to discern the irrelevancy of ancient religious thinking to our current daily life.

Here’s why. Any statement-religious or not-causes activity in the ventromedial prefrontal cortex, one of the are
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Wish Yourself A Very Merry Pussy Day

It’s Christmas time. You know what that means? It means it’s time for the de-bunker to call-out Santa. Hey, at least I’m an equal opportunity myth de-bunker.
So, here’s the problem with all myths – they pose as cute little, seemingly innocuous stories. However, they are anything but that.
The real story of Santa Claus is one that trains children in black and white, punishment reward thinking – violent thinking.
I was working with a client this morning who sees herself as neither religious nor judgemental. However, when I really broke her thoughts down so she could see them, it was clear her thinking was black and white, polarizing, and violent to her well being. read more

Women are Figuring Out that They have Always had the Power

I have an idea. And I’m going to share it with you in a moment. But first, I want to talk about a change that I see happening in the myth of the female psyche.

The current myth is that open female sexuality is slutish. Most sex is evil. That menstrual blood is dirty. That a sexually expressed female is a whore. However, I’m noticing that a lot of younger girls are not buying it.

That’s because these myths are just scams, enacted by men to completely dominate and control female sexuality – to the point where they have even tricked women into policing
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A Woman’s Womb is Her Own

Ahh, the power of difficult discussions. I’ve been thinking about something sitting like a splinter in my consciousness. It’s about ownership.

Ownership of the vagina and the womb. What I am noticing is that there is this new framework of relationships that is all about pussy ownership, dressed up as “open and empowered relationships.” read more

Porn is One of the Universal Languages

This week, I sat down with award winning porn editor Rhonda Ovalman. She’s 24 years old and openly loves the industry. Rhonda is part of a generation that has grown up with porn.

Here’s the cool part: When Rhonda thinks about porn, she thinks about making the world a better place. She said that she can’t imagine reaching a larger demographic than the people who watch porn.

Then I had an aha moment. Porn is one of the universal languages, which means it has tremendous power. Because of easy access to technology, she believes that porn will evolve and expand over the coming decades. Porn, she says, is begging for transformation.
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